My Own Self-Motivation mental model

When I was studying back in Manila, I remember our professor ask us to create a mental model, he said those that are able to create or formulate a mental model of all the things he or she learned the whole semester will pass. Speaking of mental model, me myself never even creates such mental model, but after understanding the whole purpose of it, I became more interested in it and so I formulated my own self-motivation mental model based on my understanding and own experience, I call this the 2P Motivational formula.


The above self-motivational model ( the 2P’s model)  explains that for a person to create and attract motivations first must starts from within themselves, each one of us must have a reason, purpose or a goal in our life’s it could be personal goal’s, career goals even love goals depending on what situation and conditions you are wanting to be self-motivated. The basis of motivation starts from two basic thing which are Passion & Positive mindset your goals that you’ve created in order to reach them you need motivation and where can you develop stronger motivations. These are through two parts of your body which is your heart (passion) and your brain (positive mindset), and each part of these body organ consist of many several factors.

1.Heart (Passion)

Motivation is driven when we are dedicated to the things you are about to do, and these things have to be something that you love and interest you the most, and of course with help of spiritual strength are you able to create this power within yourself, the power of passion that stimulates motivation in your life.

2.Brain (Positive mindset)

Start by imagining positive self-image of yourself or what you want to become and the outcome of your hardwork, positive mindset is very important it gives courage to your heart (passion) by thinking positively and being optimist you are able to make the right decisions in life and are directed with Intelligence and knowledge that you are gifted with towards the goal you are aiming.

And these two should be able to work together, your heart must agree with your mind and your mind must follow your heart, there should not be a clash or a misconception between the two, only when the two are working together and are they functioning well, that’s when they’ve became great partners 🙂


Love medicine (the true ingredient for true love

Love doesn’t need your attention, it seek its own attention meaning feelings will automatically grow by itself so don’t force yourself dear, it’s such a dramatic feeling it will take you miles away from the reality. Love cannot be forced or detected, it usually appear during unexpected time and place and sometimes with a surprising person.

Prepare yourself before saying “yes” or “I do” in everything, good news or bad news there is always a hurt and painful feeling in between, a true love. Because you are learning from each other’s weaknesses and accept them.

True love will do more sacrifices for something that will make you happier, it will make you feel the only species in this big world, because the way it make you feel “ special in every way”

True love doesn’t complain the way you appear, your background, race, religion, age or financial background it sees only through your eyes and the beauty of it, and of course the person you are today meaning accepting the way you are.

Real love doesn’t like to rush over things, it is very careful and caring and like taking things slowly but surely, appreciate every little thing that you’ve done and are not demanding.

True love is romantic, passionate and dedication it never takes it eyes to someone else but you, because you stole his/her heart and now it belongs to you.


Time flies, I can’t believe its been more than a year I haven’t been writing much here does this means i’m too busy to even express myself anymore?… well not really I just lost that motivation of writing combined with my busy schedule of working, I decided to try and reactivate myself again.

It’s a new year hopes and travel plans are ahead, so let’s start fresh and continue what I’ve always loved to do writing, photography and traveling 🙂

Waterfalls in Sukabumi

The only thing that drives me to travel outside Jakarta is curiosity and peacefulness from all the hectic life in town, this time my journey takes me to Sukabumi, I decided to do my solo traveling, starting from Depok Lama I used the KRL commuter line train heading to Bogor (Rp 7000) after arriving to Bogor stasiun, I had to walk out and cross the street to transfer to another station in Bogor called Stasiun Paledang, wasnt hard to find as long as you cross the street you see a KFC just go straight ahead then you see an orange writing of the stasiun name. Luckily I was there on time since the train KA Pangrango only leaves 3 times a day the earliest is at 7:55am in the morning after having my breakfast I bought the economy ac only Rp 20,000, the executive one is 50,000. It took 2 hours from Bogor to Sukabumi, short trip and very comfortable train. My first Journey was to visit Curug Sawer and Situ Gunung known to be some of the attraction in Sukabumi. Heading to Curug Sawer took me an hour and another hour for short trek into the forest.

As you can see the waterfalls picture below